We’re so glad you’re here. If this is your first visit to an Orthodox church, you may notice some unfamiliar gestures and traditions. You do not need to know them all before you come! Simply enter, listen, and join us in prayer. These few tips can help you feel more comfortable as you experience the beauty of Orthodox worship.

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Children Are Welcome

We strongly believe children belong in the life and worship of the Church, and we are glad to have them with us. Christ tells us "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these" (Luke 18:16). Children learn to seek the Lord through the patient example of their families and parish community. 

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If you feel your child needs a break, don’t stress! Please feel free to step out and return when ready. The sound of children in worship is not a distraction. It is evidence of life, growth, and the future of the church. If your child makes some noise, you are not bothering us. You are blessing us. 

 

What to Wear

Wear clothing that is comfortable and generally modest, keeping in mind that you may be standing for much of the Divine Liturgy if you choose to. There is no required outfit, though comfortable shoes are very helpful! Hair coverings are absolutely not required, though you may see some women wearing them as they feel called as a personal expression of reverence in prayer. 

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When You Arrive

Arriving a few minutes before the service gives you time to settle in and take in your surroundings. You may see people lighting candles, praying quietly, or venerating icons. If the service has already begun, you are still welcome! Enter quietly, and if a Scripture reading or procession is underway, pause near the entrance until it finishes before finding a place.

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Standing and Sitting

We stand for much of the service as an expression of reverence and prayer. Please feel free to sit whenever you need to, especially if you are elderly, pregnant, caring for a child, or have any health or mobility concerns. You can follow the congregation’s movements as you feel comfortable, without worrying about getting everything right. You are also welcome to sit and observe!

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Candles & Icons 

Candles are a visible offering of prayer, often lit for loved ones or particular needs. You are welcome to light one and offer your own prayer!

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You will also often see Orthodox Christians bowing and kissing icons. These gestures are not worship, but an expression of love and reverence for Christ and His saints - much like you may kiss a photo of a loved one after they have departed. If this is completely unfamiliar, you are welcome simply to observe. Continue to press in if you have questions! 

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The Sign of the Cross

During the Divine Liturgy, it is customary to make the sign of the cross when the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit are named together, at “Holy God, Holy Mighty, Holy Immortal,” and at other moments of prayer and reverence. 

If you would like to join in making the sign of the cross, join your thumb and first two fingers of your right hand (this represents the Trinity), and fold the remaining two fingers into your palm (this represents Christ’s divine and human natures). Touch your forehead first, then your chest or abdomen, your right shoulder, and then your left shoulder.

 

Holy Communion and Blessed Bread

Holy Communion is reserved for Orthodox Christians who have prepared to receive it with prayer, fasting, and regular confession. If you are visiting from another Christian tradition or are exploring Orthodoxy, please remain in your place during Communion and join us in prayer. 

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You may also be offered blessed bread. This is distinct from Holy Communion and is offered to visitors as a gesture of welcome.

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After the Service

The Liturgy will conclude with prayers of thanksgiving and a final blessing. Afterward, please stay for coffee hour so we can get to know you and answer any questions! Is there any better way to get to know each other than over a heaping plate of snacks?

 

Above all, know that you are welcome here. You do not need to arrive knowing every custom – none of us will ever be an expert! We hope your visit offers space to pray, connect with God, encounter the beauty of the Church, and that you feel at home among us.